'I pay for everything': Man threatens to charge his long-time girlfriend $900 in rent for her two kids after he gets yelled at for sharing his parenting opinions

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  • AITAH for telling my GF she needs to pay rent for her kids? AITAH for telling my GF she needs to pay rent for her kids? So back story my (M34) and gf (32F) have been dating for 2.5 years and living
  • together for about 13 months. We moved to a different state for her to go to college. So we both had to get new jobs, I found one off the bat. She took a couple months to find something. So I started paying
  • for everything. Eventually she came around and started paying for groceries. But she doesn't have money for anything else. She does have a couple of kids. So she has
  • them full time and the father doesn't pay any child support. I mean I make pretty good money but I don't feel I should be paying for everything. Plus she decided not to go to college any more.
  • Anyway, we were out to dinner the other night and I forget exactly how the topic came up but it had to do with her kids. I guess I was giving advice when that wasn't my intention. I thought we were just
  • talking about issues. Anyway, she proceeded to tell me how I'm not a parent and I have no room to talk and that I need to leave the parenting to her. So I told her that if that's the case she should pay
  • rent for her kids then. (We have a three bed room unit and while we are both on the lease I'm paying for it). I told her it would be about $900 a month on account of that's
  • about $475 per room. Obviously she was angry. Eventually we got past that, but I started thinking maybe I was out of line. So was I TAH?
  • Ornery_O. If she doesn't consider you a parent or male figure in her kids life you aren't responsible to pay for them. She needs to get a job and pay for half the expenses, including rent and food. Otherwise kick her to the curb and find someone who isn't an ahle.
  • Proper_Fun_977 ΝΤΑ IF you're taking on parental responsibilities, you have a say in the parenting. Or, she can pay for her kids.
  • SRB2118. NTA. I'm a mom with a de d beat baby daddy. My husband and I pool all money but if I was her I wouldnt allow you to pay for everything. She's using you!!!
  • Mission_Leather_2913 Hold up.... She had you MOVE states so she could go to college...then she drops out n pays nothin but food costs??? Nahhhh bruh....
  • HolyDarknes117 Bro WHY are still in this relationship?!?! She is using you to pay for everything while she doesn't even have job to provide for her own kids!
  • johnnycarrotheid ⚫ You are getting played You move for HER college, and she isn't going, that's a massive flag that it could be for other reasons. Isn't earning enough to pay anything other than basic groceries, how much does she work?
  • For all you know, she could have skipped states to keep the dad, or dad's, away from their kids, and that's a possible warning for your own future. Do not get her pregnant. She could be claiming child support, and because
  • dad's are in another state and can't see them, she can claim maximum child support. Padding her bank account, while you pay for everything
  • You are basically bankrolling her in her move to another state. It's not for college, and you need to find out what's going on, and why.

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